Learning From Porn

Sex does not have to be all those crazy positions that are so uncomfortable that it is not even fun or feels good. Sex can be learned from porn in many ways. Porn shows that sex should start out with foreplay, or maybe some dressing up or role plays. Making everything in the bedroom a little more fun and relaxed while still spicing it up can improve your sex life without having to do those strange positions you read about in sex books.

Some people think that spicing up a relationship is all about buying the crazy sex position books, when in reality it is just about making it fun and relaxed and making sure that your partner is always comfortable. There are many ways to stay comfortable and spice it up. Communication is a very large part of a sexual relationship between two people, making sure that you are talking to your partner after sex, paying attention to what they did and did not like during sex, and what they would like you to do more of. It is easy to talk to your partner and tell them the things you desire when you trust them, which happens with communication.

Another way to spice it up in the bedroom is role playing. Everyone has hidden fantasies they want to play out with their partner, and it usually has to do with what type of porn they watch. Whether it be a student-teacher fantasy, or a threesome of some type, the genre of porn the person watches determines what turns them on. Porn is a way for people to see their fantasy without letting other people know about it. Sharing those secrets with your partner, and sometimes ever watching certain porn with them can increase the passion and understanding of what you want during sex.

Making sure that foreplay is involved in sex is a way to make things sexier too. Porn usually starts out with oral sex of some kind, and on to sex afterwards. Most couples, especially those married and under routine sex every week, just have intercourse and nothing else. Having foreplay, whether it consists of oral sex or dirty talk, can really spice up a relationship and make it go from regular every day sex to “oh my gosh” sex!

Sex is something that everyone needs in a relationship, long term relationships, short term relationships, and everything in between. The more comfortable you are with your significant other, the more you can tell them; your likes and dislikes. Much like disclosing other private affairs, like generic Viagra purchases, secret fetish toys and such, letting others know about your your preferences can help turn your sex life around.

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