Do You Suffer From SPS?

SPS or Small Penis Syndrome is common among most men. For some reason, men are constantly worried about the size of their penises. We make jokes about being small, we’ve seen movies and T.V. shows portraying the old locker room trashing session of the underdog. We have measured them and secretly compared them to porn starts, classmates, roommates, brothers and the occasional restroom stranger (even when the rules say not to.) We even admire those fellow men who sport a big Ben in between their legs. Heck, we want to be that guy. But why?

Funny thing. Men, ever since our first porn marathon, begin collecting an imagery of what a manly and almighty penis size should be and compare these to our own. What most men fail to note is porn stars are not your standard man, nor is their Johnson necessarily all theirs. Some porn stars use prosthetics; some are simply blessed by nature, as some would think. However, the “blessed” are not necessarily so. It is well known fact that having sex with a man with a large penis can even be painful for the woman. And so the deformed concept of “the bigger my dong, the better and more irresistible man I am” starts to form. Even when most men suffer from SPS, they are likely to have an average size penis.

The thing is women do prefer a “bigger” penis when it comes down to girth, not length. A thicker penis pushes against a woman’s labia and lower vaginal walls. This pushing action results in greater pleasure for the woman. However, a man does not have to have a penis the circumference of a water bottle to give his woman pleasure. A nice circular motion of the hips can far compensate for lack of girth, giving the woman as much pleasure this way.

Men suffering from SPS have one single problem. They are focusing on the black spot on the white canvas. By focusing on the wrong issue, they fail to understand great sex and great pleasure are all about giving pleasure to the woman and hopefully make her orgasm. And a female orgasm seldom has to do with intercourse. For women, orgasm is more commonly reached through manual stimulation or through oral sex. You thrusting your winkie in and out of her is not the most likely way to spin her world.

Women value satisfaction over penis size. That is a fact. The more pleasure you are capable of providing her with, the better lover you will be in her eyes. It is not a matter of an extra inch or two. After all, you can accomplish more with your flexible tongue than with your one-mode penis. Think about that. The control over the movement your tongue performs is beyond compare when you consider the penis can barely be controlled beyond in-and-out motions. Pleasuring a woman is not getting hard (on its own or helpfully assisted by generic Viagra); it is beyond your penis.

So next time you are worried about finding whether you are bigger than her ex-lovers or whether you rule the kingdom of penises at work with your Johnson, think that no matter how small or big you really are, how you use what you have is far more important than size. As a girl once said: “When a guy thinks pulling out his huge penis is doing enough, good sex is out the door before the thing hits the floor.” There is nothing worse than a lazy lover.

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