Her Brains Love Sex
October 13, 2009 by woolrite
Filed under Sex Issues
Women are Crockpots. It is that simple and that clear. When you want to cook with a Crockpot you need to first add whatever it is you want to cook, all ingredients, all preparations. After all the right ingredients are in, you have to let the whole mix set aside and let it warm up. Yes, it may take longer to cook, but your dish will be much more tender. And you do like tender meat, don’t you?
I remember this friend of mine who was always worked up about his girlfriend taking too long to get in the mood. His head just couldn’t get around it. His girlfriend obviously needed more time to get aroused than he did, normal difference between men and women. I still can’t find the wrong in that. For a lot of guys out there, lack of instant arousal can be difficult to understand and a little frustrating at times. But getting around this issue and coming to terms with it not only will give you peace of mind, but it will also help you have better sex.
Once you understand women work differently, you are on your way to a new and improved sex life. Women and men work different when it comes to sex. Women are pot roasts; men are microwave dinners. Women need time, men are practically instant. Even when you are on ED medication like generic Viagra, you are hot the minute you see cleavage or back. Women get hot, but not wet. Not right away anyway. So learn to build that arousal. Learn to restrain your inner need to poke her right away and use foreplay as your master tool of pleasure.
By restraining your primal urges, you can deliver a mind blowing experience to your partner. Besides the ego boost for watching your partner rejoice in the pleasure you just provided her with, you too will come out benefited. When you restrain yourself from going for the pot of gold right away, you too generate expectation and anticipation. As you two reach your arousal peak together, the end result is bound to be explosive. Both of you enjoying each other’s explosion of lust can be the ultimate sexual experience. A lot better than regular, hurried and not so pleasurable sex, right?
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