Married Sex Turned Hot

Being married, in spite of all that joking and messing around we do while we are out on a guys’ night, is awesome if you have found the person you really want to spend your life with. Yet, more often than not, couples struggle to maintain the same mystery and allure their dating relationship had. Living together and sharing the more prosaic aspects of life can derive in less than appealing behaviors. As married people, our dressing and behavioral routines can change drastically. We switch tight boxer shorts for a ragged t-shirt and sweat pants; consequently, our gorgeous sunshine turns in her skimpy negligee for truly unflattering and less than appealing flannel pj’s. And so, our once unstoppable love affair turns into lazy “want to have sex tonight?” followed by a bothered “get done with it quickly, it’s almost time for me to take my whitening strip off.”

Even when your relationship as husband and wife is worth bragging about, sex can suffer (even when not often) from everyday stress, children overpowering your privacy and alone time, work hassle and more. While sexual appetite in younger marriages may be benefited by eager experimentation and more limber and well-kept bodies, young professionals struggling to make car and home payments and following a certain lifestyle are often the first to find their libido turned down a notch or two. And there is no shame in it; today’s 24/7 activity world means we get more tired, assume more responsibilities, acquire more stress and have less time to devote to the little things that make sex “special.”

But enough whining; let’s get down to business. With an alarming number of men under 40 complaining about performance anxiety, looking to spark up their marriage or offset the effects of alcohol, this new wave of men (20 to 40-somethings) are far from resembling the famous blue pill’s first Marlboro Man equivalent, Mr. Bob Dole. The former presidential candidate presented the public with an image association between the ED treatment and age group the medication was intended for: 50-somethings and up.

Today, the profitable industry sees a drastic turn in target audiences: young professionals, husbands and boyfriends suffering from one of the many generational illnesses of today’s world. Formerly sexually secure, men today seem to have dropped their “man = sex” role, and are intimidated by the independent “I have a dildo, I don’t need you” woman, not to mention anxious about their performance in bed.

However, experts advice young couples to have not only an open communication channel at all times, but to take matters into their own hands too. Your parents, you and those after you will all experience similar situations. It is often common to leave sex aside in the face of marriage ruts or kids invading your personal space in the bedroom. A common mistake men make is seeing their loved ones as their wives only. Always remember to make room for romance and sex, in spite of the situation you are in. Sex helps couples reconnect if they have fallen apart, provides intimacy within the relationship  and relives the times when you first started dating.

By rethinking your perception of this woman who is now your wife, you will soon realize this is also a hot girl who wants to get you in the sack, all the time. And the best part of it is, she will want to jump your bones, generic Viagra or not. Perhaps that sense of being wanted might even help get rid of the psychological effects everyday life has over our sexual performance. Think about it man, with her you can let your wildest imagination run free and trust she won’ t be laughing off about how hot you get when she dresses as Princess Leia.

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