The New Relationship Rush

We are all familiar with the feeling of butterflies in the stomach when starting dating a person who really touches our hearts. Contrary to common belief, not only women experience this feeling of excitement, also men do. So no, it is not something that only women have or something of which men should be embarrassed of. The difference, however, is that men tend to keep their excitement for themselves whereas women simply radiate happiness. The sign of happiness in men may be better hidden but with a bit of attention you can still notice. Read more about the new relationship rush and how your body reacts to your feelings towards a particular girl.

Many women wonder whether men do feel butterflies from time to time. Since most me have been taught not to express their feelings, many girlfriends (or girlfriends to be) are disappointed because they do not seem to get a clue of what their partner is feeling or whether they are as excited as they are because of the new relationship. But the fact that some men admit to feeling butterflies, allows us to generalize and say that men experience love in quite a similar manner, even though they pretend to be all macho about it and face up to it.

So, when experiencing the new love excitement, as a man, what is there to do? Hide it or enjoy it to the max? If you ask me, the best is to enjoy this new relationship rush for as long as you can – though I have been known to be very much in touch with my feminine side. But the truth is, after a while, it will fade away and you might feel sorry that you didn’t enjoy it. For many, dating is the best part of a relationship. Some people cannot actually commit long term because they feel the rush dropping. The new girl, the new situations and mainly getting to know that person next to you in different types of situations makes relationships so much fun in the first place. Some men, on the other hand, might try to elongate the effects of the butterflies. Big mistake. Butterflies flutter around in you belly for only so long. With smaller fluttering comes a new stage in the relationship, supposedly already paved through from butterfly-time experiences.

While sweaty hands and raced up heart beats might not sound like the walk in the park new love should be, all the intense feelings are what give you that endorphine rush. If only doctors could come up with a generic Viagra like pill for the butterfly flutter effect we all love and can’t get enough of. Rushing in to any part of the relationship soon leaves you feeling you wish you could go back for more. Don’t be a fool, don’t rush into love – not all at once, man.

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