Wonderful Sex
The promise of amazing sex can excite anyone. The mind is capable of going places not even we knew existed. Anticipation and build up can have a huge effect on the way your sexual experience turns out. It can sure make it better; more explosive and exhilarating. However, when the time comes you are so full of expectations that the other part can end up holding a pretty heavy load. Should we anticipate our encounters with forthcomings of what a wonderful time we’ll be giving our partners or should we stay shut and play it safe?
As I said earlier, anticipation can be a great prelude to sex and heighten the participants’ excitement around the subject. It can motivate you and your couple by maintaining a certain positive tension throughout a day and deliver an amazing encounter at night. The big question is whether we’d be able to deliver such a finale when it is time. You can yak about how much you are going to rock your date’s world and leave her wanting that night of passion because you didn’t measure up to her expectations.
Therefore, sometimes and specially when relationships are frugal or new, I recommend keeping your mouth shut until the time comes. Though I admit it is the safer way to go, you’ll be covering your back from fruitful imaginations and overtly experienced partners. No matter how knowledgeable you are in the arts of love, making your couple expect too much can always backfire. Learn to tease her with ideas you have without comparing yourself or making statements like being the best sex she’s ever have. When you two get it on, she’ll know whether that is true or not.
The same self-consciousness men with erectile dysfunction suffer from before taking generic Viagra can be experienced by health men who have manage to make their dates anticipate too much. Even when a man is good at what he does, chemistry and compatibility are very relative. What might have worked for you and a previous partners might not be best for your present date. What you think to be “the best sex of your life” might end up being a total flop for her.
Instead make sure you talk less and act more. Plan your date so there is little room for mistakes. Of course you can’t control everything, but when you have a plan you are more confident. B plans are also a good idea. When the time of truth comes, you are better of being yourself and sticking to what you know instead of trying to be inventive and “revolutionary.” Most women are very sensitive to change, and so are their orgasms. Don’t try to get smart when going at it. If a move works to stimulate her, continue with it until she comes. Otherwise, try something new. She will enjoy it and you will get the job done. Make sure to communicate; there is no space for frustration here, after all, it takes years to be deeply interconected with someone. You first need to know her to understand what works for her, for you and for both together.
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