Bedroom Must Not's
Most men who have been involved in relationships have experienced the much dreaded sexual change. This is the point when women go from loving sex to absolutely hating it. Some women will still have sex but will be uninvolved and lifeless, while others will simply stop having sex altogether. Bedroom cooldown usually has to do with men performing some common bedroom must not’s.
One of the most common bedroom dont’s include men’s forgetfulness regarding the importance of tenderness and foreplay. These are the men who simply hop into bed with their wives or girlfriends, touch them briefly, and then expect “amazing” sex to follow. This usually happens in the later stages of a relationship, when men have become overly comfortable and begin to expect sex as a natural part of the relationship. For women, this just isn’t how sex works. Women need constant tenderness, love, and attention, and this goes for all areas in life. This is how women feel like having sex in the first place. This makes them feel desired and loved, and when a woman feels this way, she is much more sexually open. Men having this problem can benefit by being more thoughtful and loving on a consistent basis and by making an extra effort at incorporating foreplay and female stimulation.
Another common problem is men who want to get kinky or rough too soon. Women do not work in the same way as men do. They have to be into sex and feel sexually secure and loved before they are willing to let their freak flags fly. A woman who knows that her man loves her unconditionally is much more willing to be sexually open and to experiment. For this reason, male partners should make an extra effort to accept and love their women just as they are and to show this regularly and overtly before attempting rough or “dirty” sexual play. Most women do like this type of sex, providing that intimate foreplay and a nice dose of tenderness are used beforehand.
Many men also tend to focus on only one part of a woman’s body, such as the breasts or the vagina. To women, this sends the message that the man only loves them sexually. A woman needs to feel that a man respects her as a person before she is willing to get down and dirty. To remedy this, men should actually talk to and get to know a woman – her likes and dislikes and other pertinent information – before just diving into sexual activity.
Finally, sex should be an intimate encounter for both parties. Men must take the time to figure out what their wives, girlfriends, or sexual partners like before having sex. Intercourse is not all there is to sex for the ladies. You might be okay with popping a generic Viagra pill, but girls are a whole different business. If a woman likes or needs to be talked to during sex, for example, a man should take the time to get to know this ahead of time. Above all, for women, sex is an emotional experience of love and respect and should always be treated as such by the men in their lives.
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