Keeping A Girlfriend Interested
Every man who has been in a serious relationship knows that, when it comes to dating and finding your soul mate, it is not that difficult to get the girl, but keeping her next to you can prove to be a challenge. Dating and its entire concept are genuinely fun unless the partners really don’t match. The whole idea behind dating is in fact to get to know your partner, and the basic rule is that even if at the beginning you are willing to show only your good parts, your not so amazing ones will also need to be acknowledged. Men, and women for that matter, are willing to hide their defects for as long as possible. The result is an unreal dreamboy. But how easy is to maintain this image of you after months and months of dating? And what happens when you are no longer able to keep it up to the expectations that you have made her have from you? No generic Viagra can help here. Do you lose her? How do you keep the girl interested in you even after years of living together?
No matter how much of a cliché this sounds like, we are taking our chance here. Because we know there are real couples out there that live happily ever after – the old people we see holding hands in the park every Sunday, it is our duty to show you how they manage to get through the routine and monotony of a long term relationship.
Though not an easy task, the key to most successful relationships is honesty, right from the start. Everybody has flaws – believe it or not, she is not perfect either! So trying to get yourself transformed into the guy she wants you to be is a not healthy on the long run. And moreover, the truth is that many boys, after getting the girl they want, have the feeling that they are not good enough for them and then try to change according to what they think the girl wants them to be. However, being honest does not mean spoiling her every chance you get is out of the question. You can still do that. Cliché? Yes. Do girls love it? Definitely.
Once you manage to surprise her every now and then with little things, she will be yours. The key, in our opinion, is to try and remind her, as often as you can, the reasons why she chose you and not other men. Flowers, a text in which you remind her how much you love her when she least expects it and such small and seemingly worthless (financially speaking) gestures will guarantee you a happy couple life for many years after the honeymoon period is over. All in all, bear in mind that little things can help you keep the girl of your dreams next to you. The secret is to show her attention and affection and you will become a happily ever after couple as well.
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