Sex Her Interests

Like some of you fellow men have learned so far, women have intricate and particular ways to get aroused. Some we don’t understand, nor do we have to. All we need to know is how to used them to our advantage (and eventually theirs). In case you haven’t heard this before some place else, women’s largest and most sensitive sexual organ is the brain. It rings a bell, doesn’t it? So, how does the so-called box of pleasure work and how can we make it work for us?

Leave the generic Viagra pill-popping for later; right now you need to focus on what she says. Yes, I know sometimes it is a little difficult for you to keep track of every single thing she has to say or each opinion expressed. However, by paying attention to her interests and goals in life, you might earn yourself a few important and rewarding points later on. How so?

By paying attention to what interests, motivates and even worries her, you show you are interested in whatever has to do with her. If you are willing to get as involved, you slowly become a reliable and trustworthy prospect. Trustworthy men are those invited in for the ultimate prize. Most women look for a man they can trust and rely on, specially when sex is the subject du jour.

Be aware though that the moment you enter this door, you are also putting yourself out there for her to start asking questions about you. Most women are pretty comfortable about fluently discussing different issues; however, they do expect you share back with them as a sign of trust and intimacy.

As you can see, trust and intimacy together are key for any woman to open up (spiritually and physically). The more comfortable they feel with a man, the easier it is for them to let go of their inhibitions. You can speed up the process of getting to trust you by being direct about certain relationship starters like your STD record and your thoughts on birth control methods. You can even anticipate part of her anxiety by clearly letting her know your intentions and what you expect from the relationship.

Better than leading a woman on to what you think she wants to hear, let her know fair and straight what is it that you expect from her and what you are willing to offer. Keep in mind that what you might want at the beginning of the relationship can evolve, grow or change, so don’t be stubborn about your ideas and try being open minded.

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