Erotic Talk In Phone Sex
Phone sex. Couples’ alternative to live one-on-one action when far apart from each other. This powerful play of words can bring a relationship back to life; it can be the ultimate alternative of safe sex, or it can well be an honest and quite “peculiar” way of earning a living. From love to money, phone sex seems to accomplish all. Used as a tool for lovers to gather information on how to arouse and fully satisfy a lover, erotic talk in the form of phone sex can prove an effective way of communication between partners. It is a bilateral fountain of information: both lovers get to discover what each other likes, wants and expects from the other partner. Phone sex can provide the shy with the ultimate presence barrier, allowing for the kinkiest of personalities to come afloat. Things you can’t tell to each other’s face can easily be dealt with first during a session of sex over the phone. Erotic talk is the sexiest, most alluring way of making your partner hot for you, whether you are one block apart of living in different continents.
Many trying to get themselves involved in the whole phone sex scene stumble upon their words and are constantly awkward when talking to the person on the other end of the receiver. However, being able to embark in this sexy adventure has helped many couples to stay together and lovers to keep their fire up and burning. Phone sex is not to be feared but to be perceived as one more way of intimately bonding with someone you love, lust, or both.
The “oldest profession in the world” adapted to the 21st century, someone commented on a blog post I found about sex phone operators. I beg to differ. In a mind set in which women are supposed to be sex-less, I guess phone sex would sound pretty whorish. However, for our peace of mind, square-minded and judgmental people are slowly but steadily decreasing among our society. Be it as a part-time job or a sexual practice with a lover, women and men are very much entitled and should be encouraged to indulge in the old art of talk.
Being able to talk to someone about the most intimate details of their body and about their raw feelings is something not all people can do craftly. Besides, allowing yourself to express what you feel (no matter how raunchy and kinky it may be) is something that takes not only courage but trust in the other person who is receiving the message. Yes, talking over the phone about how much you love sucking on this or how big things are when looked up from a given place can seem both a tad funny or even ridiculous. But phone sex is what you make of it.
Ideally, you are not having phone sex to laugh at what your partner has to say, but to enjoy the connection you two can eventually establish. Phone sex can also be complemented with more graphic aid such as photographs, video, live chat or video conference. It’s just a matter of preference, resources and level of intimacy and trust between the parts. Yet, true phone sex is supposed to provide no visual aid for a reason: being able to react to nothing but sound (be it a voice or sounds) not only triggers imagination into new levels, but it also heightens the other senses, and some people in the business say it even helps you listen better to what the other person is truly saying.
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