Hooking Up With Older Women

Bring me a college coed or 19-year-old sex bomb any day, you say. Well, maybe. Young girls are just that: girls. Conversation can turn ditsy and good looks are not something one can rely on forever. Girls are many times insecure, making them clingy and needy for our time and attention. They are seldom economically independent, and therefore, end up spending most of our money. Looking at this issue from a sane point of view, it is a good thing youth is not forever, especially during these days, when the cougar era is unstoppable and strong. Go Cougars!

Women, contrary to girls, have acquired certain personality traits that are certainly desirable in a mate. If you are tired of spending your savings in $12 drinks in the hopes of getting at least a number from a girl, moving up the age scale might be highly recommended for you. I’m not saying you can carelessly forget about pampering a lady. But it is not needing for you to pay for her drinks that makes a woman hot. A woman has had to support herself for some time now, and therefore expects nothing from others. She can afford her own luxuries; she knows what she likes and how she likes it. It is your problem if you can’t deal with it. Being financially independent is sexy.

As with financial independence, women are also capable of being by themselves. Women enjoy being on their own and often remind those who want to be with them how important her time is and how she is not willing to let it go just because you came into her life. Too harsh? Well, I think it is great. And emotionally independent woman not only oozes confidence, which is really sexy, it also allows some breathing space in the relationship. Since she is confident and not afraid to lose you, she won’t be calling you every two seconds just to “hear your voice”. Don’t get me wrong, women are not cold bitches, they are just comfortable enough with themselves to know they don’t need to have you right then and there every second of the day. And again, confidence is sexy too.

Because older women know what they want and who they want to be with, their company is often privileged by great conversation. Having had her fair share of experiences and having defined priorities, likes and dislikes, her conversation is likely to be much more pleasant and interesting. A woman that has lived longer has much more to tell; plus, she knows stuff. Wink, wink.

Older women seem much more sophisticated. Instead of vomiting their hearts out after a night of hardcore partying at the local bar, women prefer the more sophisticated ambiance, without this meaning expensive. For women, a bottle of wine in front of a fire simply fits better with their mindset than doing shots with strangers. Not that there’s anything wrong with that.

Last and most importantly, they know sex. Great sex comes from women. They’ve been there, done all of that, and gotten the t-shirt, trophy and picture to prove it. And who gets the best out of it? You! Why do you think this whole Cougar movement has caught up so fast? Being 50 means looking hotter than ever with the brains and wisdom of time. What a killer combo? Craving your generic Viagra yet to keep up?

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