Foreplay Is King
The king of modern day sex is foreplay. In a sea of sex toys, lubes, get ups and trend groups following this fetish or that, your ability to warm up your partner is more highly valued than any other skill or endowment you could ever bring to the bedroom. Foreplay has not only become an intrinsic part of any high quality sexual encounter, but it has also open a window of opportunity to all of those men who at some point in their lives suffer from erectile dysfunction and haven’t gotten around the idea of getting generic Viagra just yet.
As a basic sexual move, foreplay is an amazing way to make build up grow tons. The greater the build up and anticipation, the more satisfactory the outcome can be. I’m not saying all scenarios of anticipation will indisputably lead to great sex, but it sure can help. Foreplay need to be understood not as oral sex or foundling, but as the anticipation of encountering your partner and warming up the engines for a later skin-on-skin performance. Foreplay includes everything from a suggestive look to a phrase promising a sexy encounter later on; foreplay is building expectation in any way possible, be it from afar or two inches away from each other.
For men with erectile dysfunction, foreplay is the alternative to being able to enjoy sexual intimacy with a partner. Because foreplay is all about skill and excitement without intercourse, erectile dysfunction is no impediment for a couple to enjoy an intimate moment. Manual stimulation and watching their partners enjoy the full experience provided by the tips of your fingers is enough for some to find sexual satisfaction. For those men who enjoy seeing their partner be pleasured, the experience of foreplay can be as mind blowing as the act of intercourse itself.
In a world where men are learning that thrusting penises inside and out of a woman’s vagina does not constitute good sex for them, the importance of equality is heightened. It is important that both partners in the sexual encounter enjoy themselves and see the other doing the same. The sexual stimulation one gets from watching the person you are having an intimate moment with enjoy themselves can be as much of a turn on as a hand job, sexy lingerie or a nice pair of tight jeans on a well-shaped butt.
A friend of mine who had an amazing sexual energy with his wife gave me great insight to what made them so sparky about each other. “We make every moment an “us” moment,” he said. “When we are at the supermarket surrounded by other people we exchange naughty looks or say things that turn us on in each others’ ear.” He says they even found a way to connect across a room packed with chaos and kids running around yelling at the dog. According to him, expectation and anticipation build up great energy and make their time together incredibly explosive. We both understand our responsibilities and everyday are always there, but we also understand how important that “us” time is for all of those things around us to work.”
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