Expand Your Dating Range
Dating, as surprising as this may come to you, is far from clubbing and being an honorable member of the Party Animal Club. With life priority changes where becoming economically stable impressively wins over getting married, the social scene has seen an incredible increase in 20 and 30-somethings. An amazingly large crowd of well-paid and commitment-free young adults has invaded the inhibition-free industry of loud music, expensive drinks, glitz and glamor. But men seem to find a dead end most of the times in this world. Out on the prowl with the crew at your local joint might be exactly what is killing your chances of finding a partner.
Ask around and you will realize that the well-instated myth of bar pick-ups is pretty much non-existent. Most women will tell you they seldom pick partners at bars and having sex comes as an option after at least the second date. Whether you want to believe it or not, studies back this information up. No matter how much TV tells us there’s hot women desperate to have sex out there, chances are reality isn’t exactly that. Yes, hot women want sex too. But not in the way we want to believe.
After buying $12 dollar drinks at the hippest club you could find for the bombshell blond in the black sequent dress and heels, either she goes home with her girlfriends or lights come on and your fantasy is over. Turns out bars are not the best place to meet women. Really! Surprising as it may sound, bars and crowded parties are places where women have their guard up the most. Consider a bar pick-up putting yourself up for a challenge close to Mission Impossible.
Meeting women is a thing of meeting people. This article I read talked about forming productive relationship networking. What this means is the more PEOPLE you meet, the likelier you are to meet new women. The problem with most people (and specially guys) is that their social circles are very close woven. Therefore, the chance of meeting new people within that circle are soon extinguished. You know those girls; you’re done. I’m not saying to get rid of your best buddies; I’m just saying you should pay more attention to your not-so-best friends. Consider that not so close acquaintances know tons of people. The more acquaintances you have and activities you occasionally have with them, the more chances you have of meeting new people.
Getting away from your routine can also help. We have already established your close group of friends is a dead end, but perhaps the people at work or joining a different class at the gym will open new doors. As you expand your social interaction activities, you will notice you start meeting more people that share different interests of yours. Just like you found out about generic Viagra through that weird gym locker talk with No Shirt Dude after Spinning class, you can find out he goes to this harware store workshop where cute girls go learn how to jackhammer their backyards. How about that!
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