Is It Cheating?

We all know how tricky relationships are. Once you get into one, you must pay careful attention to all your actions because, as you certainly know by now, women can be very judgmental. But what are you allowed to do and what aren’t you in a relationship? What can be considered cheating and what cannot, but might still drive your girlfriend crazy is the whole point here. Learn more about what you can and cannot do when you are in a relationship.

Is talking to Carol, that hot bartender at Shots, cheating? This and many other questions come to mind often. Everything is relative, so there is no affirmative or negative answer in this situation. And yet, there are many cases in which cheating and not cheating can be clearly distinguished. Some men for instance may be accused of cheating when having a close female friend with whom they enjoy talking about their private life or even asking for advice. Not guilty, we say. Having female girlfriends is part of one’s history and once such a guy gets a girlfriend, the girl should understand that the past cannot be erased. So what if you, her boyfriend, get along with other women? Not a biggy. Some men may even ask for advice from female friends when facing couple trouble. This can be a proof of love given the fact that they in fact try to solve the issues within the relationship.

Meeting female friend secretly, on the other hand, can become cheating. Let’s say you have an old friend and you go on Facebook to catch up with her. But at the same time you know that your girlfriend will not be very happy about this so you hide your meetings from her. Odds are she will automatically accuse you of cheating if you were to get caught. And even though there is nothing to be accused of, you did violate her trust and went behind her back. That is cheating. After all, if there is nothing to hide, why meet secretly and expose yourself to such a risk?

Although cybersex might sound exciting and no cheating is really taking place due to lack of physical interaction, you might be wrong. Sneaking behind your girlfriends back to have phone sex or cybersex, or even meet with an ex is definitely something you’d be named guilty for. If the idea of cyber sex of phone sex is so appealing to you, than why not do it with your girlfriend? You have great chances that she likes the idea, given the many sexual fantasies that women secretly have. There is no point in emphasizing why meeting your ex is cheating, is there? Keep your generic Viagra within the relationship, and think clearly before acting on something you might regret later. Cheating and situations in which your girlfriend may get mad at you are around every corner, man. It’s all about how you take them.

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