Frottage, Safe Sex Unlimited
Defined by several dictionaries as the “act of rubbing against the body of another person, as in a crowd, to attain sexual gratification” or obtaining “sexual gratification from rubbing against the body of another person”, this big word really stands for nothing more and nothing less than what people know as dry-humping. You did it as a teenage boy against your girl classmates, against your mom’s friend while she hugged you and against some lady in the subway. You still do it (with or without the intention to do so) when in a crowded club, a concert or any other massive event that requires you to squeeze yourself through to get to the beer stand.
Intended or not, there are some occasions in which rubbing against someone just feels nice. Putting the creepy-guy-in-a-hat part aside, there is something really nice and really promising about rubbing. You are encountered with what seems to be this or that; you are feeling maybe 70% or 80% of what you could be feeling up really – maybe even less depending on place, clothing and position. Consensual groping and fondling can really build up expectation and desire in a woman, and nothing says “I want you” like trying to get a sneak preview of what you will be touching later in the buff. Give her pleasure without worrying about that generic Viagra in your system.
It is a known fact that us men love the bare and naked right from the start. It is also a known fact that getting there really turns both people on. And it is more than known that women specially love getting to the point where they simply have to take their clothes off. And boy do we love those clothes coming off. Therefore, the importance of well-performed, old-school rubbing and fondling.
First, think of good frottage as an excellent way of foreplay. Remember your high-school years? All that her propping against you and finding ways to get your hand down her pants without anyone noticing is what we are talking about. Think of frottage as the technique to make your woman feel younger, naughtier and more desired. A flashback to her teen years will leave her wanting more; and this time she will sure want to have it.
You can indulge in a little rubbing with or without your clothes on. If used as foreplay, start with suggestive rubbing wearing your clothes and slowly begin to get rid of clothing items as you build up tension. The ultimate form of frottage is done without clothes on and, like other forms of frottage, it too serves as an excellent way of foreplay or in-between intercourse sexual contact.
Though rubbing against each other without actual penetration might not be the ultimate sexual satisfaction for some, it certainly provides the sex scene with a safer yet close way of sexually interacting with one another. Experts believe dry-humping can prevent several feared aspects of penetrative sex, especially during the earlier years of sexual practices. From avoiding pain from penetration and having a lower chance of getting an infection to more life-changing outcomes like pregnancy, sexual rubbing acts should certainly be more looked up to than anything, if consensual, of course.
