Big Turnoffs For Her (I)
As differences between men and women have long been a part of our interaction, men and women have had more than enough time to make endless lists of turn ons and turnoffs about the opposite sex. As men, we are well aware of what we like and dislike on a woman, with a few slight differences here and there, from man to man. She must like sex, tolerate our drinking habits and overall stay out of what is not her business. Simple. Like us men are, simple. However, within this simplicity of ours, we fail to see those huge turnoffs for women. And that, fellows, is one thing we should seriously start considering if we want our bed to get a higher visit count.
Even when we are more than thankful every time a girl accepts to share our bed, there are some areas that can maximize bed time milage. All we need is tweaking a bit here and there and, bam! we are ready to wrestle that piggy. From condom use to forcing yourself on to her and bringing up the past one too many times into the conversation, there are some things women are just not going to put up with, no matter how much they loved that tongue trick of yours.
In a list of things men need to be more conscious about, the hygiene issue is a very important one. Not only does it apply to the foreplay and kissing stage of relationships but to the sex part too, obviously. As “Hitch” very well stated, women believe the first kiss will tell them all they need to know about you. Be this true or not, good kissing is without a doubt something you want to be able to do. Slobbering all over your date, constant and restless tongue movement, teeth bumping and the mother of all bad kisses, bad breath, can make or break your kissing reputation. And the same goes for kissing elsewhere. Use your tongue wisely, not desperately.
Besides bad breath, hygiene in general can be a turnoff. Period. For you too, man. You know it. But, if we have to be picky about hygiene, we have to address the obvious. Genitals, crotch area, back door, and every single place you might want to be kissed, licked, rubbed or touched; these all need to be clean and clear of overgrown bush, crust, foul smell and unwanted debris. Men fail to realize how important the right soap and deodorant are. The same goes for collateral damage when peeing or going # 2. If residue is left, the longer it stays there, the stronger it will smell. And when your parts smell, women don’t want to be near them. Seriously. They don’t.
With hygiene, we cannot but think of being clean and protective of health. While most women would not be bothered by their man using generic Viagra or some other ED medication, condom use is mandatory. For women, besides the risk of having an unwanted pregnancy, unprotected sex is out of the question. While alcohol, drugs and reckless behavior might at times allow for such situations to take place, refusing to use a condom is offensive, irresponsible and plain out stupid. And it should be for men too. Regardless of pleasure levels dropping for us, condoms can release our part of the equation from unwanted and undesirable responsibilities and consequences. C’mon man, I don’t have to explain the whole condom thing. Use it, it is that simple.
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