Sex Issues No Man Should Buy Into
April 30, 2010 by woolrite
Filed under Sex Issues
There are certain pop culture beliefs that no man (or woman) should ever buy into. However, no matter how many times we might have heard otherwise or have been given the correct information, these misinformed concepts and urban legends can’t seem to disappear from our everyday. Particularly around the whole sex sphere, pop culture has managed to come up with sometimes unbelievable and concerning lines of thought. Mostly due to misinformation and ignorance, these ideas prevail. We have gathered some issues about sex present in pop culture no person should buy into. Make sure to correct someone next time you hear these popular “pieces of information.”
As with all things sexual, television, movies and media in general have created an unrealistic perception of what sex is (or should be). No matter how many roses you spread around a candle lit bathtub, there is little you can do about sloppy bathtub sex other than practicing and communicating. Seldom does sex take place without inconveniences, lack of sync, awkwardness and embarrassing sounds. Girls have chick flicks and we have porn; both portray unreal sex both genders inevitably expect when the time comes to do the nasty. What time will tell is, the more you communicate with your partner, the better the sex will be. It is not a matter of magic and perfect matches. What might work for one sexual partner may not work for another, so keep that in mind next time you are with someone.
While we do enjoy our fair share of sexual drive, most men fail to understand women too can have (and most likely have) incredibly high libidos. Whether these work synchronized with ours or not is a whole different issue, but the ladies like to get some too. In the same way we are always expected to be up and ready, women are often said to romanticize sex and only “make love”. Well, don’t we all crave a little love making as much as a quickie or porn sex? Believe it or not, your girlfriend might be hornier than you right now.
Sex, no matter what are you are, is always an integral part of life. Sex is not only a physical urge and an animal instinct. Sexual interaction with a partner helps us feel reassured and can improve our self-esteem, state of mind and health. The whole myth on older people not having sex should be in your brain’s garbage file as we speak. Not only the physical act of intercourse, sex can be an active part of people’s lives well into their golden years. After all, some dude invented and commercialized generic Viagra with such a purpose, right?
Speaking of myths, there are some things that have been perpetuated in society that stem far from scientific truth, and that matters. For example, we are often judged by the size of our hands or feet by lurking women who believe these measures will be some sort of indicative to how great a gun we are packing under our belts. False. There is no scientific proof that directly relates hand or foot size to penis length or girth in any way. My guess? It is just a fun and somewhat slutty way women have to flirt with us.