Married Sex Turned Hot

Being married, in spite of all that joking and messing around we do while we are out on a guys’ night, is awesome if you have found the person you really want to spend your life with. Yet, more often than not, couples struggle to maintain the same mystery and allure their dating relationship had. Living together and sharing the more prosaic aspects of life can derive in less than appealing behaviors. As married people, our dressing and behavioral routines can change drastically. We switch tight boxer shorts for a ragged t-shirt and sweat pants; consequently, our gorgeous sunshine turns in her skimpy negligee for truly unflattering and less than appealing flannel pj’s. And so, our once unstoppable love affair turns into lazy “want to have sex tonight?” followed by a bothered “get done with it quickly, it’s almost time for me to take my whitening strip off.” Read more

Performance Anxiety Cure

No matter how big a night is having sex with this chick, you should relax before going full throttle here. Nerves, stress and anxiety about your performance in bed can kill the mood even before the long-expected date. You know you have those Pitcher Friday Nights with the boys run you over and those love handles now look more like your identical twin is trying to scape your body through your hip than “just a little chunky here and there”. Now, looks is not all that worries you, size is a matter of importance too. Unit size, that is. With all the planning and scheduling you had been doing, you almost forgot about measuring up, if you know what I mean. What else do men worry about and how to get over them? Read more

Fat and Sex Don’t Mix

In this day and age, when obesity is the order of the day, fat-related diseases have become more and more common, even among children and young adolescents. Motivated by consumerism and the junk food industry, more and more young people are slowly turning into the morbidly obese of tomorrow. Sadly, these trends of bad eating habits and little to no exercise will carry on into their adult lives and passed on to their children. And so the circle continues. Breaking this type of habits is key to have a longer and healthier life, but are we men willing to sacrifice the beer chugging and the fat food eating and throw our almighty manliness into the garbage can? Read more

Letting Her In On Your ED

Men are unlikely to go to the doctor’s office on their own and willingly. Men don’t particularly like doctors; men think they can rub, walk or sleep things off. I have four brothers, a dad, a grandpa and a father-in-law. Non of them have ever gone to the doctor because they thought it was necessary. Either my mom or I dragged them to the ER (in the case of my brothers, mostly) and to see different specialists (in the case of my dad). My parent’s marriage had a little bumpy ride for some time, and as I found out years later, after my mom passed away, she thought Dad was cheating on her or no longer in love with her. Turns out he had erectile dysfunction and was reluctant to tell my mother and go to the doctor. Read more

Foreplay Is King

The king of modern day sex is foreplay. In a sea of sex toys, lubes, get ups and trend groups following this fetish or that, your ability to warm up your partner is more highly valued than any other skill or endowment you could ever bring to the bedroom. Foreplay has not only become an intrinsic part of any high quality sexual encounter, but it has also open a window of opportunity to all of those men who at some point in their lives suffer from erectile dysfunction and haven’t gotten around the idea of getting generic Viagra just yet. Read more

Generic Viagra Mentally (Part III)

As any other medication, generic Viagra has side effects. But I’m not talking about the possible negative side effects the medication can have on your system. Actually, I was thinking more on the lines of positive mental side effects. As a man whose leg has been severed takes a prosthetic leg with a smile, so I view my experience with generic Viagra when my erections were taken away from me. Of course, the physical effect was remarkable and I felt unbeatable and quite manly. Secretly I thought my penis as Popeye and generic Viagra was my sexy spinach. However, the biggest transformation I underwent was mentally. Read more

Generic Viagra Physically (Part II)

After turning 40 last year and undergoing my personal prostate exam, I also started getting worried about other aspects of my poor health, I hate to admit. All my life I have had a very active pace. I exercised plenty, ate right and was constantly reading about new health issues and stuff. A few years into marriage changed things, and responsibilities, children and tiredness made me put on some weight. Sound familiar? I’m not blaming marriage for my overweight. But the truth is I no longer have as much spare time to buff up and sweat out the dozen hot wings and pitcher I used to have as I did 25 years ago. Actually, I seldom eat that way because I get heartburn. Read more

Generic Viagra Socially (Part I)

Thinking about the impact generic Viagra has had on our society, I realized this medication while a revolutionary medical product, it is also a social actor that has strongly influenced both men and women about the way they perceive what was once thought of as a negative sexual situation. If you are a fan of Friends like me, you probably remember the episode in which Rachel and Ross fight and break up. The confrontation after which they break up ends up with her telling Ross, “it is NOT okay, it IS a big deal, and no, it doesn’t happen to all men” or something like that. Read more

Diabetic Men And ED

The fact that a very significant percentage of men with diabetes will experience some degree of erectile dysfunction during their lifetime needs not scare this male population. Yes, diabetic males tend to experience erectile dysfunction significantly earlier than other men. Yet, treatment is available for them as much as for the next guy. Like other men, erectile dysfunction tends to hit harder and more often as years go by.  The older you are the higher the likelihood of you experiencing erectile dysfunction; diabetes makes that likelihood come sooner than for other fellows, that’s all. Read more

Alcoholism and ED

Alcoholism in men will most likely cause sexual problems getting and sustaining an erection. This problem can present itself even when the man is sober. However, next to this physical impediment, alcoholism is also bound to cause sexual problems within the couple. Alcoholism can negatively affect libido and cause erection difficulties. Alcoholism needs to be understood psychically, but also mentally. Read more

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